有人说我老牛吃嫩草，在这里我要告诉你，牛是吃草的，小牛吃草，大牛吃草，老牛当然也会吃草。有没有规定什么牛应该吃什么草？草分为嫩草，老草及枯黄的草。如果你是牛，在你眼前有以上三种草，你会吃哪一种草？小牛吃嫩草是理所当然，大牛吃嫩草也是合情合理，为什么偏偏老牛就不能吃嫩草。老牛也是牛，为什么它吃嫩草就不对？老牛大半生为社会做出贡献，当它老了，为何不能吃好一点的草，是不是一定要吃老草及枯黄的草，才是符合道德标准。
请告诉我新加坡的法律那一条规定老牛不能吃嫩草。还有老牛的定义是什么？50岁？60岁？70岁？80岁？还是90岁？如果曹国辉和我都被称为“老牛”的话，那81岁的杨振宁博士就不知该称为什么牛了？如果杨博士是老牛的话，那国辉和我充其量只是牛仔罢了。那为什么杨博士就没有人说他老牛吃嫩草？是不是？只要有社会地位就例外呢？
14 years ago
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酱你是间接地承认你真的和你的“助理”在搞暧昧loh！！
新加坡的法律是没讲什么老牛不老牛的，是现实上要做什么事之前都要想清楚后果。不然的话就会,就像现在你这样被人家讲:您老人家了还在搞“暧昧”还和那末年轻的搞上。真的是没做好榜样！我没有怪您，只是有些事您要真的要做就适可而止吧！
when you are famous and have the status,you will always have someone available and wanting to get close and stay close to you, but when you no longer famous and possess any status, will she still be around? It a very practical world.
think maybe you wife would, and hopefully she is still around for you or available by the time you have regretted.
I am an ardent fan of yours and still is. However, I had hoped that the rumours will not be true but you know better your own relationship. If you had split with your wife before being seen with your new partner, things would have been different. As it is, during this time, stay cheerful as I believe you know best what you are doing. Pls preserve your image becos by posting defensive comments,you will only invite more critics. Take Care and all the best. Jia U.
Hi Marcus,
I caught a glimpse of the chinese papers last Sunday & now I understand better what this is all about. Oh well, Singapore is still pretty much conservative & the people are basically very critical. Take it easy & you will soon see the light ")
有的人以為很懂愛情，自以為似的都要是非一番，年紀大愛年紀小或年紀小愛年紀大都是愛，不是動物進食，真愛假愛只有當事人才曉得。
被一個人疼一個人愛是感受，不是甜言蜜語，更不是夜夜激情，在乎的是對方的熱情、欣賞，當不在身邊時，心中是惦記、思念、相信！
我們說牽掛牽掛，是牽引著自由去將愛情掛在內心深處，願意接受另一個人，將夢想建立在自己身上，這是其中一種愛情形態！而在愛情中，的確是很難將兩人分的清楚的，因為畢竟愛情是兩人一同創造出來的，是兩個靈魂交錯的光合作用，如在愛情中兩人都失去了原來自己，為了對方而改變自己。
承諾是愛情的某種制式語言，可能是天荒地老也可能是海枯石爛，但往往再多的保證都留不住已變的心，頓時承諾成了刺耳的諷語，不管自己是承諾的給予者或接受者，最後的解釋只剩力不從心！
山頂風景美，但是不管是跌下來或是走下山，都比上山痛苦! 相愛不難，但是愛已兩難時，卻苦不堪言。真愛是種穩定與真心，用心是一切付出的基礎，激情後的溫暖是真的，絕望後的領悟是痛的，我們都該讓真心起飛，愛人與被愛哪個幸福？真心的人最幸福吧？
你的〝小牛老牛嫩草老草〞论听起来还颇有道理。其实外人很难判断你跟你太太、助理错综复杂的关系。如果你认为是对的，就无需反驳。可是得切记，老草陪伴你大半辈子，在没有嫩草的情况下，充当你的粮食。只因嫩草长出来了，就将老草弃之不顾？这其中的对与错，想必只有你自己最清楚。
我本身也是一株五十岁的老草，真怕我老公〝东施效颦〞，那天回来跟我说：我这头老牛辛苦了大半生，是时候吃好一点的草了，嘿嘿….
祝福你！
呵呵，看了你的回应为你家中那株老草感到欣慰。我不觉得曹叔叔有什么不对，别把他拖下了你坠入的黄河。好歹他还没娶，你可是有妇之夫。
再说，家里那株老草也不是什么省油的灯，让你发言，看你骗谁。老牛啊，外面的草新鲜的很。出去后，把鲜草变老草，那株老草春风吹又生，老牛想吃个回头草都来不及了。
难不成你像落得老牛的下场？
我认同JC的看法
搞婚外情就是错
请你自量点不要把其他人拖下水
很惊讶你会有这样的反应
看来你已经认定了嫩草 想把老草给丢了吧
抛弃糟糠之妻 一定有报应的
如果你觉得你活够了 不相信报应
那你大可以不必理会别人的眼光和批评
继续吃你那新鲜的嫩草吧
我认同JC的看法
搞婚外情就是错
请你自量点不要把其他人拖下水
很惊讶你会有这样的反应
看来你已经认定了嫩草 想把老草给丢了吧
抛弃糟糠之妻 一定有报应的
如果你觉得你活够了 不相信报应
那你大可以不必理会别人的眼光和批评
继续吃你那新鲜的嫩草吧
i really disappoint on you.Please think of your wife,she accompany you so long life.She take care on you and you much take care on her too.When you do everything, think twice!
陈x彬 MARCUS CHxN 从此就变成了 “老牛”
一只辛苦工作大半辈子对社会有贡献的老牛
埋怨大家不能体谅老牛觉得理直气壮，
辛苦了大半辈子 ，老来应该享用嫩草的权利！！！
你怎么可以跟杨政宁博士和曹国辉相比，人家一个妻子过世多年，另一个未娶。绝对比你有权吃‘嫩草‘。做了违背良心的事还振振有词。艺人更应该树立一个好榜样，如果每个都像你一样，嫌糟糠之妻是枯草而弃之，那这个社会该变成怎麽样？真是为老不尊！！
建彬，
您好！今天馬來西亞星洲日報［國際拼圖］綜合版台湾訊：據報導，根據丹麥科研機構研究發現，老夫少妻的後代比較聰明，孕育出天才的機會比較多，像至聖先師孔子和西方的愛因斯坦。孔子的父母歲數相差54歲，愛因斯坦的父母相差11歲。 朋友
很高兴陈大哥自认是老牛一名，有没想过那天老牛不再有能力吃嘴边这口已介成熟的嫩草时，会不会担心有别的壮牛过来帮忙（偷）吃？
有什么对策了吗？今天你弃人，可能明天人弃你，你就毫不担心吗？为了眼前的一口嫩草，把多年辛苦建立起来的一点名声，就这样不理
智地扫进坟墓，可惜啊老牛兄。。。
I fully agree with Choi, One day U this old Cow unable to `Stand` see someone take over U.
Marcus, I admire u in the radio, U seem like a gentleman always advise others, but now U yourself fall into the trap.haw pity U R.
Hi Marcus, U R 54, she is 24, how big is the gap, 10 years later 64, can you handle her at 34.??? Pity U
Mary said
杨政宁博士和曹国辉, one is widower, the other is single, how can you compare with them. 搞婚外情就是错.Hope that 新加坡的法律 will impose very strict laws to punish those who commited adultery including the vixens.
Nowaday, a lot of "Uncle" eating 嫩草 not only Marcus Chin. I am really pity the Vixens'parents how they discipline them. The Vixens create a lot of problems and troubles in our society.
Please rethink your decision carefully and sensibly. What is the real reason for your change?
Character difference? Childless? Or just to have some fun?
The old Marcus Chin will never be the same again. Its such a pity.
I stand on for Marcus - when comes to love & love feeling, there is no right or wrong -
Both myself & my old cow is married & with children - but when we met - it just click - so is a form of whelther you still look after your family ?? :)
世上两种人最没品
一 背叛者
二 第三者
真是非常恶心，令人作呕！
I think yyy also same kind of ppl as Old Cow.!!!!!!!!!!
老牛是可以吃嫩草，不过是属于那些单身人士。结了婚就要对老婆负责任，就没有资格去吃嫩草。你说这句话就是在怂恿已结婚的老牛在外面理所当然和鼓励他们到处去吃嫩草。新加坡是属于一夫一妻的制度，而不是一脚踏两船。你是公众人士，这样有损你的形象，后果你得自负！
你的助理不讲还看不出只有24，不嫩了啦。婴儿肥倒是还在！
拜托别拿自己和杨振宁博士相比，你老婆还没死！！！
你是公众人物，搞婚外情还大言不惭，谎话连编，对外还否认到底，实在令人瞧不起！！！
预感你会离婚，然后事业走下坡，回到以前辽倒的生活。到时肥草另外找老牛。遗弃糟糠之妻，必遭天遣！！！！
It's not wrong to find a new love, firstly you must be single, eligible and available.
If you do not meet any of the above, you are not suppose to eat or find "young grass".
If all husbands are to follow your footsteps, most families will become single parent family. So sad and tragic for all the people.
Who is to be responsible for this state?
管別人說您是老牛，您沒高凌凤老又沒孙子，您只是大牛；您可以吿诉他们“大牛比較懶”。
管別人說您是老牛，您沒高凌凤老又沒孙子，您只是大牛；您可以吿诉他们“大牛比較懶”。
你是一个很好得艺人，我真的不想因为这件事而让我对你感到失望。加油！
Red and Dorcas Lim, well done.
You are right.. this old cow soon get back to his old rocked day.
after viewing your confestion, your reason is due to character difference.
You have overcome a crisis in 1992 and has resolved it. Why can't both of you resolved it?
A marriage does not come easy; destroying is as easy as 123.
Save and cherish it will you still can..........sigh.........
I laughed mad when my sis ask me to interpret this phase “大牛比較懶”reversely...
Wow! Your voices are so powerful.
Why are people so judgemental and quick to condemn when they don't even live next door to Marcus?
Our Kelantan princess gets our sympathy because she is ready to tell all. Do we know all about the Kelantan prince or Marcus? How would anyone know that he would be better off saving his troubled marriage? Have they been watching too many politically correct TV dramas full of stereotyped characters like the timid wife, the vixen and the unfaithful husband? There are too many variable factors in real life - some are beyond the imagination of sheltered Singaporeans.
Sure it's wrong to commit adultery. But are those who condemn Marcus faced with the same level of temptation? I'm sure many of the old bulls who condemn Marcus cannot even smell the young grass. Maybe that's why they are so well behaved.
Give the man a break. It's up to him how much he wants to reveal about his unhappy marriage. He may even be reluctant to present the ugly side of his wife for all we know. It's his life, for heaven's sake. Give him the benefit of the doubt.
唯有当事人最清楚发生了什么事，就让他们自己好好去除处理吧。 不要再给他们扛上许浒多多的压力了。
haven't settle the divorce,and you so fast let all the peoples know about you and that girl,you can think what people will say about that girl.I don't think she wll get pity or bless from anyone.Maybe she still young ,she much think of her parent.No parent want her daughter to be like that.
as a fan of your morning talks, I am utterly disapointed in your decision.
Mr Chin,
please do not forget that u are a known figure on air. Will the youngsters or men in singapore follow in your footsteps??
p.s. and don't condemn the cows
as a fan of your morning talks, I am utterly disapointed in your decision.
Mr Chin,
please do not forget that u are a known figure on air. Will the youngsters or men in singapore follow in your footsteps??
p.s. and don't condemn the cows
Hi Marcus,
I support you for everything you say... I feel that human being are just too FREE nothing BETTER to do... Everyone have our own family problem... Do the people out there know what's Marcus problem... If you don't know please keep your mouth shut... 1 people mention only the rest tag along... EXTRA right!!! Everyday newspaper keep on posting this news... Is it that there's no other news??? Or the NEWSPAPER COMPANY are just trying to make money.... People out there please mind your BUSINESS ok.... Marcus do whatever you think is right for you... Don't have to care what people say... as long as you don't regret can liao... We will always support you.... Jia You....
Jia U, Marcus Chin,
In S'pore, a lot of retiree actually marry foreign bride who are much younger. In fact they are even younger than your girlfriend. Love... is regardless of age and religion. As long as it is true love, it doesn't matter.
我的牛草论。
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小牛吃幼草，
大牛吃甘草，
老牛吃嫩草。
不论大牛老牛， 只要吃好草就是好牛， 吃野
草就坏牛。
我真的不想每天都看到你和那个小妹妹的文章。如果有那一天她如愿以偿，你将会lost many fans who support you so many years include me and my family.
Hi
家家有本难念经 啊 ！
我相信陈本身也没料事情会演变成这样子。从家事变成家变或是由第三者而家变或者是家已变了而第三者只是个catalyst 呢? 陈可能也不太清楚。外人更无法理解或给于意见。
在这一刻有时为了“明天会更好一点”也就只能走一条以为能平静一点安慰一点的路，也不知是好或不好是对或不对。也没有好的不好的对的不对的。
陈要冷静处理，对得起自己是最重要的。
You said that you have problems with your wife since 1992. But the question I want to ask is, why now and not years ago? You decided to divorce your wife now to be with someone who can be your daughter? Had this woman not appear, would you still choose to divorce your wife? You know the ans!
Of course man like young girl like her.I don't know what she is thinking.She not feel shy but i feel shy to her.If one day my daughter do the same thing like her, i will slap her and tell her to resign the job.Because she must face to everyone.Hi girl,please don't do this silly thing,otherwise everyone will look down on you.
长痛不如短痛，勉强是没幸福，在一起多久也没感觉....
人只能活一次，也没法满足全世界，只要相信自己就好。命是自己的，苦时还不是要靠自己。别人也没权批评，有空批评别人不如去做做义工。
相信要结束多年的婚姻你也想了好久，也代表你也曾经尝试，不然就不会等到现在。
Anyway，世上你又不是第一个离婚的，离婚也没罪，勉强才是罪。可惜你是圈内人才中镖。‘敢敢做个开心人’吧！:D
aiyo....好多评论，不得不说点公道话，因为你是艺人，因为你是好好先生模范。我想错在你未先公开你的婚姻状况。坦白讲，你的私生活我没兴趣，比较兴趣的是每天八点开车上班听到你的广播，加油啦。。。
老牛的心聲誰人知。
當夜深人靜，回家想吃吃家中老草。
老草說：今天沒下雨，草干不能吃。
當早晨雞啼，興致勃勃又想吃吃家中老草。
老草說：天還沒有黑，草沒空不能吃。
老牛帶著那顆吃草的心。
到處尋覓，到處探索。
終于有一條嫩草，春情蕩漾找牛吃。
也想試吃陳年老鞭的滋味。
帶著一顆假小鹿亂撞之心。
把最寶貴嫩苗，奉獻了給老牛。
吃了嫩草的老牛，變的精神奕奕。
老草慢慢地發現，老牛不再喊吃草了。
有時老牛為了交差，草草了事吃三口就吐了。
老牛常常夜歸，嫩草吃到草留牙縫中。
終于草包不住水，穿了！老草淚流。
老牛受到千夫指。
老草之家歸不得。
嘴硬高唱嫩草甜。
內心悔恨怨太晚。
奈何回頭已成空。
嫩草雖甜但性寒。
老牛吃到腳軟軟。
腳軟蕉軟自己知。
頭大腳小難支撐。
遲早卜街沒人知。
陳老牛， 祝你安康。
Hello Hugo-W, What is that got to do with you? Don't kepor other people bussiness. 把你自己的事管好.
Stay as cheerful as you can . You shouldn't even care what others says . what matters the most is what you think and you know the story behind everything the best :D So get on with life and heck care what others says . CHEER UP , SMILE :D All the best yeah .
建彬兄，我一向都听你的节目，但这事件发生后我没听你的节目，你现在是搞婚外情，而他们两位是一个太太已经离开了，一个是还没成家，你是在搞婚外情。
要是有一天他认为你老了，她也可以找别的男人了。到时后悔来不及了，人财两空。
这是一个很现实的世界。你悬着嫩草，放弃老草，终有一天，嫩草也会遭属于她自己的嫩牛然后把你抛弃就像现在你抛弃老草一样！
-希望你好之为之-
老牛，吃回头草吧！我现在已不听你现在的节目了
老牛！你真没人性，
我已没听你的节目了，我不会支持你了！
保重！小心新草也会抛弃你
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